I lived. I learned. I grew.

I lived... Throwing all caution to the wind, I made a choice to live. To live in the fullness of me and who I am. I choose to love in the only way I know how, with my whole heart. And here's the thing, when you choose to live full out, it means that the...

Control what you can control…

So yesterday was quite the day. I woke up feeling pretty decent about things, and then bam, the star player from my favorite team was ruled out for the game I would attend later that night. What a bummer, but hey, nothing I can do about it. Gotta just go and root on the guys...

*Taps Mic* Is this thing on?

*Clears throat and taps mic* Well, well, well, if it isn't me blogging again. Lol. I'm baaaack. It's been a while since I've written. I've taken this time to live and learn. Just as I thought I'd gotten to a place of complete breakthrough, life said, "But wait, there's more." LOL And so, I put...

The beauty of Blackness in all its EssenceFest

So I'm usually not one who likes to harp too much on my Blackness. Like I look Black, I talk Black (for whatever that means), and my entire world is Black (Despite what folks might think as a LA Native). Hell, I have the Black power fist tatted on me. I don't need to make...

Alpha, maybe hold the Omega tho.

It's a curious thing to translate your love language to someone and hear them speak it back. To feel their understanding when you didn't even know if they heard you clearly. Me: “If the title of my blog was, "So about this guy I'm "seriously talking to" here's the thing," what would it say?!" "I...